Welcome to Marriage Help like you’ve never known it before.

This is not typical Christian churchy marriage help that doesn’t move the needle and leaves you feeling like a worthless, ball-less chump who still can’t attract his wife.

This is not legalistic “husband do this,” “wife do that,” duties that lead to obligation and a dead bedroom.

This is KINGDOM MARRIAGE MASCULINITY TRAINING.

     -This is confident and assertive communication.

     -This is decisive and compassionate leadership.

     -This is authentic gritty manhood.

     -This is deep transformative connection with Jesus.

     -This is miraculous life in the Spirit.

     -This is a safe, secure, honored, esteemed, and valued wife.

     -This is sex revived.

This is Husbands:Resurrected. 

HERE’S EXACTLY HOW GOD HEALED MY MARRIAGE

 Believe it or not, it did not come from applying the typical church advice to husbands:

• Love her more like Jesus.
• Pray harder because God is using this to build your character.
• Buy her flowers. Send her love notes. Kiss her more.
• Read the Bible together.

See, I had already been trying those things! They weren’t working!

I was going crazy trying to “love my wife”, when in reality all I was doing was pushing her away. And no matter how hard I prayed, I was stuck and our marriage was hurting.

Judging by all the normal Christian church wisdom for marriage, I thought I was an amazing husband.

But I was painfully wrong.

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All I was doing was NEEDING my wife. I was whiny. I was manipulative. I was trying to perform all these romantic tasks so that I could get what I needed from her.

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It wasn’t strong.

It wasn’t sexy.

It wasn’t manly.

So, I course corrected and I learned how to be a man. Not a watered-down nice guy who was the sweetest little Christian man you could ever imagine.

I learned how to be bold. I learned how to be confident. I learned how to not be needy.

The answer was not to fix my marriage.

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The answer was to learn who I was, as a son of the Father, as a man, as a warrior in service of my King. That was my broken foundation. All attempts at fixing the marriage were pointless until I fixed that.

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As a man trying to find my way in the world, without a whole lot of masculine role models to go by, I battled depression daily and couldn’t shake the idea that God was just not going to work for me.

I felt alone, though I believed in Jesus. I felt like I was on  my own to figure this all out and I was doing a terrible job at it.

But that changed, my friend.

AND IT CAN CHANGE FOR ANYONE ELSE WHO WANTS IT. 🔥🔥🔥