It’s time to go to war.

We Christian men have sat in the trenches listening to bullets whizzing over our heads for far to long. We have unknowingly tucked ourselves away into what feels like safety, but is actually the most dangerous position on the battlefield.

And you’ve felt it.

Maybe you feel it through the constant battle with depression and asking, “Is this all there is? God, I thought there was more!”

Maybe you feel it in the room you enter, when you immediately worry what everyone is thinking about you. And you leave the room with a sense that you were never REAL. You were never authentic. You were never you…that whole time.

If you’re like a lot of “pre-wakeup” men, you probably feel it in your marriage. In fact, this may be the biggest point of pain for you. You’ve been married for X years, and you can’t figure out why you lack confidence in your own home…with your own wife.

You feel like she’s not attracted to you anymore. She doesn’t want you. Sex is a struggle and not as often as you want, and–why the hell won’t she just want you?!

You probably know that something is off in your life mission. And it may be as simple as…you haven’t begun it. You’re so busy trying to just emotionally, financially, relationally survive–praying for things to miraculously change tomorrow–that you have lost sight of why you’re here.


Let me tell you what Jesus, a real man, says about you.

He says that you are . . . a real man. He says that you are his son with full access to him any time of day or night and with free reign over his household.

He says that you, like him, have authority, power, love, and a sound mind. Also, you’ve been given everything you need to live the amazing, passionate, mission-driven, take-no-prisoners life that, up till now, you’ve only wished you could live.

He says that you are more than a conqueror. You kill giants, snakes, scorpions, lions, and bears. You spread power when you take a step.

You are a freaking king who knows what he wants and invites his woman into the adventure with him. You are attractive, a stud, and a stallion in sex. 

God knows it. Your wife still believes it.

Do you?

I’m Matt Hallock, founder of Man Warrior King, and I too have been there. But I’m rebuilding–stronger, more focused, more in tune. Now I’m learning to live in my full identity as a man, a son of the Father. I took action.

Maybe you’re like me.

Maybe you’ll take action too.

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