Attn: Christian men and husbands
New book teaches men how to ACCELERATE their lives and REBUILD their marriages…
even if they’ve already been trying with other books, blogs, sermons, and programs.
To the Kingdom Men (and their Women) who have had enough and want more…this is for you.
Let me describe for you pain I’ve felt, and let’s see if you can relate.
“I must be liked and approved by others. Otherwise I’m doing something wrong. Otherwise I’m being offensive, and that’s not okay.”I get paralyzed by people’s disapproval or dislike of me. This keeps me living inauthentically.”I feel like I’m not quite connecting with the present moment. Like I’m not truly getting to know and be known by others. I feel unable to be myself.””I want my wife to be more playful, adoring, and open with me. If she would change, then things would be better.” (sound like Adam, anyone?)”I feel emasculated somehow. Thought I’m not quite sure how. I have needs and desires, but never express them because it feels selfish and wrong. I silently hope others will meet them, and I get frustrated, bitter, or resentful if they don’t.””I love Jesus, but my life doesn’t see much of his real actual power…even though I believe in the gifts and power of the Holy Spirit.””I’m praying for him to change things, and he’s not doing it. He seems to favor others over me.””I know I’m called to be the leader in my marriage and family…but I feel like I’m not. I don’t know how to begin. Instead I feel like I’m living to avoid her disapproval.””I feel like I’m living passively, but I’m not sure how to be assertive when I’m supposed to depend on God and submit to his will.””Life feels flat. I feel like I’m going through the motions.”
If you want to finally get unstuck even though you’ve already been trying with all your strength…
…Then I’m convinced that this book, The DNA of a Man, will be a crucial instrument that God uses to bring you victory
in your marriage,in your dark and defeated emotions/thinking,and in your experience of the power of the Holy Spirit.
But first, the problem(s)
But first, the problem(s)
At this point, you’re probably struggling with one or a couple of problems. That’s okay, I would be too.
PROBLEM #1: You’ve already read a bunch of books on how to become a good Christian man. You’re not interested in another list of character traits you need to adopt, or behaviors you need to modify.
You don’t need someone showing you the way to look all nice and put together, like the perfect church-going Christian man.
SOLUTION #1: You’re in luck, because I don’t want to give that to you. I’m not interested in making you a better Christian.
I’m interested in helping your spirit come alive to the primal DNA that God put inside of you as a man.
I’m interested in leading you into a deeper connection with him so that you can finally live passionately unleashed. So that you can finally approach his throne of grace with confidence. So that you can finally see the power of his Kingdom at work in your life.
PROBLEM #2: You’ve already read who-knows-how-many Christian marriage books, blog articles, podcasts, etc. And none of it is helping your marriage. You’ve already heard the standard marriage advice out there:
Love her more like Jesus would.Up the romance game…buy her flowers, send more texts, go on dates.Grit your teeth and pray more, because God is using her to shape your character.Lose your life. Die to yourself.
If you’re anything like me, you’re already doing all of those things. You’re running yourself ragged trying to do all possible romantic gestures just hoping that something will actually ignite that spark.
You of course love Jesus and of course want to love your wife like he would. This is already a non-issue for you. But somehow it’s not translating like you think it should.
You are definitely praying, asking God to help. Asking him to transform. Asking him to bring revival to your marriage.
And all of this amounts to you losing your life. You just want HIM, but HE doesn’t seem to be doing much about it all.
The truth is, these are all GOOD TEACHINGS. I wouldn’t argue with any one of them. But the problem that almost NO ONE talks about is that they are not the root issue. You’re trying to apply good teachings in the WRONG OPERATING SYSTEM. And as such, it won’t ever work.
SOLUTION #2: Thankfully, The DNA of a Man is not your average Christian marriage book. I will not be giving you a fresh version of the above GOOD TEACHINGS, the tactics and strategies to fix your marriage.
Instead, I will be giving you tools and steps and principles to change the OPERATING SYSTEM. That way, all of your praying and romancing and serving will actually be fruitful, helpful, heaven-filled, and passion-inducing.
In other words, you’ll start to become attractive and desirable, rather than needy and manipulative.
So now that we understand each other, let me jump in and show you…
To the Kingdom Men (and their Women) who have had enough and want more…this is for you.
Let me describe for you pain I’ve felt, and let’s see if you can relate.
“I must be liked and approved by others. Otherwise I’m doing something wrong. Otherwise I’m being offensive, and that’s not okay.”I get paralyzed by people’s disapproval or dislike of me. This keeps me living inauthentically.”I feel like I’m not quite connecting with the present moment. Like I’m not truly getting to know and be known by others. I feel unable to be myself.””I want my wife to be more playful, adoring, and open with me. If she would change, then things would be better.” (sound like Adam, anyone?)”I feel emasculated somehow. Thought I’m not quite sure how. I have needs and desires, but never express them because it feels selfish and wrong. I silently hope others will meet them, and I get frustrated, bitter, or resentful if they don’t.””I love Jesus, but my life doesn’t see much of his real actual power…even though I believe in the gifts and power of the Holy Spirit.””I’m praying for him to change things, and he’s not doing it. He seems to favor others over me.””I know I’m called to be the leader in my marriage and family…but I feel like I’m not. I don’t know how to begin. Instead I feel like I’m living to avoid her disapproval.””I feel like I’m living passively, but I’m not sure how to be assertive when I’m supposed to depend on God and submit to his will.””Life feels flat. I feel like I’m going through the motions.”
If you want to finally get unstuck even though you’ve already been trying with all your strength…
…Then I’m convinced that this book, The DNA of a Man, will be a crucial instrument that God uses to bring you victory
in your marriage,in your dark and defeated emotions/thinking,and in your experience of the power of the Holy Spirit.
But first, the problem(s)
But first, the problem(s)
At this point, you’re probably struggling with one or a couple of problems. That’s okay, I would be too.
PROBLEM #1: You’ve already read a bunch of books on how to become a good Christian man. You’re not interested in another list of character traits you need to adopt, or behaviors you need to modify.
You don’t need someone showing you the way to look all nice and put together, like the perfect church-going Christian man.
SOLUTION #1: You’re in luck, because I don’t want to give that to you. I’m not interested in making you a better Christian.
I’m interested in helping your spirit come alive to the primal DNA that God put inside of you as a man.
I’m interested in leading you into a deeper connection with him so that you can finally live passionately unleashed. So that you can finally approach his throne of grace with confidence. So that you can finally see the power of his Kingdom at work in your life.
PROBLEM #2: You’ve already read who-knows-how-many Christian marriage books, blog articles, podcasts, etc. And none of it is helping your marriage. You’ve already heard the standard marriage advice out there:
Love her more like Jesus would.Up the romance game…buy her flowers, send more texts, go on dates.Grit your teeth and pray more, because God is using her to shape your character.Lose your life. Die to yourself.
If you’re anything like me, you’re already doing all of those things. You’re running yourself ragged trying to do all possible romantic gestures just hoping that something will actually ignite that spark.
You of course love Jesus and of course want to love your wife like he would. This is already a non-issue for you. But somehow it’s not translating like you think it should.
You are definitely praying, asking God to help. Asking him to transform. Asking him to bring revival to your marriage.
And all of this amounts to you losing your life. You just want HIM, but HE doesn’t seem to be doing much about it all.
The truth is, these are all GOOD TEACHINGS. I wouldn’t argue with any one of them. But the problem that almost NO ONE talks about is that they are not the root issue. You’re trying to apply good teachings in the WRONG OPERATING SYSTEM. And as such, it won’t ever work.
SOLUTION #2: Thankfully, The DNA of a Man is not your average Christian marriage book. I will not be giving you a fresh version of the above GOOD TEACHINGS, the tactics and strategies to fix your marriage.
Instead, I will be giving you tools and steps and principles to change the OPERATING SYSTEM. That way, all of your praying and romancing and serving will actually be fruitful, helpful, heaven-filled, and passion-inducing.
In other words, you’ll start to become attractive and desirable, rather than needy and manipulative.
So now that we understand each other, let me jump in and show you…
