Rebuild your Marriage, Your Mindset, and Your Mission in the Kingdom

By Embracing Your God-Given Masculinity

 

…even if you’ve already studied ALL the books, blogs, and sermons (LIKE I DID!) desperately looking for answers.

Have you been searching for the tools to:

Become the confident, attractive husband whose wife truly desires you?

Get out of the toxic inner world of self-deprecation, self-doubt, and self-defeat?

Kick butt in the world and see the “desires of your heart” (Ps. 37:4) begin to take shape?

Connect with Jesus and the power of the Holy Spirit so profoundly that miracles flow through you…like in Acts?

Matt Hallock, author

Hi, I’m Matt. I have faced intense pain and defeat, and I’ve learned how to overcome. I’ve learned how to live according to the awesome DNA that God implanted in me, rather than my circumstances or feelings. I’ve learned how to love and attract my wife, and to connect deeply with her.

And now I’m excited to pass to you the tools that God has given me.

To the Kingdom Men (and their Women) who are hungry for more…this is for you.

You know all those pesky, annoying thoughts that bounce around in your mind, all day long, shredding your confidence, joy, and strength? 

The thoughts that I, myself, was absolutely overrun by for a couple decades of my life?

Thoughts like:

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“I must be liked and approved by others. Otherwise I’m doing something wrong. Otherwise I’m being offensive, and that’s not okay.

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I feel like I’m not quite connecting with the present moment. Like I’m not truly getting to know and be known by others. I feel unable to be myself.”

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“I want my wife to be more playful, adoring, and open with me. If she would change, then things would be better.” (sound like Adam, anyone?)

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“I feel emasculated somehow. Thought I’m not quite sure how. I have needs and desires, but never express them because it feels selfish and wrong. I silently hope others will meet them, and I get frustrated, bitter, or resentful if they don’t.”

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“I love Jesus, but my life doesn’t see much of his real actual power…even though I believe in the gifts and power of the Holy Spirit.”

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“I feel like I’m living passively, but I’m not sure how to be assertive when I’m supposed to depend on God and submit to his will.”

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“I know I’m called to be the leader in my marriage and family…but I feel like I’m not. I don’t know how to begin. Instead I feel like I’m living to avoid her disapproval.”

If you want to finally get unstuck even though you’ve already been trying with all your strength…

…Then I’m convinced that this book, The DNA of a Man, will be a crucial instrument that God uses to bring you victory…

      • In your marriage. 
      • In your dark emotions and defeated thinking. 
      • And in your experience of the power of the Holy Spirit.

Because what you don’t need is a bunch of cheap church platitudes that sounds nice and holy, but that really have no power.

You don’t need techniques and tips on how to rekindle the romance in your bedroom, how to buy flowers to make her happy, or how to learn to be happy with what you’ve got in life.

Maybe…just maybe…

What you need is a brand new way of being a man.

At this point, you might be dealing with a couple of problems. I know, because I was there too. In fact, I STILL deal with these problems!

PROBLEM #1: You’ve already read a bunch of books on how to become a good Christian man. You’re not interested in another list of character traits you need to adopt, or behaviors you need to modify.

You don’t need someone showing you the way to look all nice and put together, like the perfect church-going Christian man.

SOLUTION #1: You’re in luck, because I don’t want to give that to you. I’m not interested in making you a better Christian.

I’m interested in helping your spirit come alive to the primal DNA that God put inside of you as a man.

I’m interested in leading you into a deeper connection with him so that you can finally live passionately unleashed. So that you can finally approach his throne of grace with confidence. So that you can finally see the power of his Kingdom at work in your life.

PROBLEM #2: You’ve already read who-knows-how-many Christian marriage books, blog articles, podcasts, etc. And none of it is helping your marriage. You’ve already heard the standard marriage advice out there:

  • Love her more like Jesus would.
  • Up the romance game…buy her flowers, send more texts, go on dates.
  • Grit your teeth and pray more, because God is using her to shape your character.
  • Lose your life. Die to yourself.

If you’re anything like me, you’re already doing all of those things. You’re running yourself ragged trying to do all possible romantic gestures just hoping that something will actually ignite that spark.

You of course love Jesus and of course want to love your wife like he would. This is already a non-issue for you. But somehow it’s not translating like you think it should.

You are definitely praying, asking God to help. Asking him to transform. Asking him to bring revival to your marriage.

And all of this amounts to you losing your life. You just want HIM, but HE doesn’t seem to be doing much about it all. 

The truth is, these are all GOOD TEACHINGS. I wouldn’t argue with any one of them. But the problem that almost NO ONE talks about is that they are not the root issue. You’re trying to apply good teachings in the WRONG OPERATING SYSTEM. And as such, it won’t ever work.

SOLUTION #2: Thankfully, The DNA of a Man is not your average Christian marriage book. I will not be giving you a fresh version of the above GOOD TEACHINGS, the tactics and strategies to fix your marriage.

Instead, I will be giving you tools and steps and principles to change the OPERATING SYSTEM. That way, all of your praying and romancing and serving will actually be fruitful, helpful, heaven-filled, and passion-inducing.

In other words, you’ll start to become attractive and desirable, rather than needy and manipulative.

See How Other Men Are Finding Hope, Healing,

and Victory through 

The DNA of a Man

This is just a fraction…

Imagine what it would be like to be confident, assertive, secure, loved…awesome.

See, for whatever reason, you and I have been left with a giant gaping hole in our upbringing, in our discipling, in our teaching. And even though we are saved, we are still living as if we aren’t. I don’t mean that we’re walking around sinning like nobody’s business.

But we’re walking around stuck, trapped, down, discouraged, and all but defeated. And I thought the gospel was supposed to be good news!

Welcome to the new book, The DNA of a Man, a fresh approach to ancient kingdom truths about YOU. There’s no fluff or filler in these 150 pages–just three solid and powerful elements of manhood that you and I MUST learn to walk in. You’ll discover how to become:

 A Man of Identity who knows his own worth and value and purpose outside of any other influencing force. Just him and his Father. Him and his King. You’ll learn:

A Man of Identity

Who knows his own worth and purpose outside of all other influencing forces.

Just a man and his Father. Him and his King.

The secret revelation about how you’ve been pushing your wife away, and how to stop it.

The key to stopping the ache that you wake up with most mornings.

The surprising and heretical truth of the ACTUAL gospel, and what it says about you, your worth, and your importance in the kingdom

How to become CONFIDENT…if I’m allowed to say it…a Kingdom badass who isn’t a jerk and who isn’t a pushover.

How to get your mojo back. Your swagger. Your certainty. Your ability to do awesome.

How to stand strong in crappy circumstances (like my health battle) and come out stronger, more on fire, and more ready to take ground.

The truth about how “nice” Jesus was/is.

How to stop being the “nice guy” who everyone likes but no one respects.

How you were pushing your wife away when you thought you were simply loving and serving her.

The way to ACTUALLY earn her affection and admiration. 

The new discipline you must start implementing based on Jesus’s words, “The truth will set you free.” It feels religious and legalistic (at first), but it’s a God-given weapon against hell.

Repeat from above (because it’s worth repeating): How to become a CONFIDENT Kingdom badass who isn’t a jerk and who isn’t a pushover.

A Man of Principle

Who lives life powerfully from his own ability of decision. 

A Man on Mission

Who is DRIVEN to attack each day with intention, power, and authority.

How to get out of the survival 9-5 mentality.

A bonus principle on healing from disease (like my own).

How to uplevel your experience of the Kingdom by taking faith-filled action.

The way to get out of constantly wishing you had more of God and start LIVING INTO more of God.

Fair Warning…

I have to warn you. You are about to make a big decision. Once you jump in to The DNA of a Man, you are positioning yourself for life like you’ve never known it.

But the transformation that you’ve been so hungry for, won’t happen on its own.

This book is not going to man up and do YOUR work for you. You have to take the revelation that you receive at put it to work. You have to take action. Otherwise you’ll find yourself in the same position as the countless half-alive men who have gone through the motions and have made it through to heaven to live forever, but…

…they never really lived now.

After all, Jesus said, “The Kingdom of Heaven is now.” Not then. But now.

Fair warning: Once you read this, you will be responsible to act on it. You will have no excuse.

This is more than just a marriage book, or a self-help book, or a Bible teaching book

It’s a complete life-transformation book. It’s a book that gets your core coming online again so that the power of Jesus can start emanating out and transforming your world.

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“I must be liked and approved by others. Otherwise I’m doing something wrong. Otherwise I’m being offensive, and that’s not okay.

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I feel like I’m not quite connecting with the present moment. Like I’m not truly getting to know and be known by others. I feel unable to be myself.”

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You can step into a new level of miraculous, supernatural living with Jesus.

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You can walk into a room and not worry about what everyone else is thinking.

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You can be bold, like the heroes of the faith.

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You can be an atmosphere-changer.

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You can finish this race proud, knowing that you did not hold back, that you did not let struggle defeat you, that you lived to leave an eternal legacy…a man who lived unleashed for Jesus.

Stand Tall in the Realm of Men

I used to feel like I had nothing to offer the world. I’d look around at other, high-achieving men, and feel like I couldn’t compete with them. And what’s more, I bought into the false religious thought that I WASN’T ALLOWED to compete.

What do I mean exactly?

I thought that, because I was a Christian, I couldn’t begin to pretend that I had anything of worth or value to bring to the table. Here are a bunch of men out changing the world and getting stuff done, but I was just supposed to hang on until I die. Meanwhile I needed to grovel in my worthlessness because shame on me if I think that I can do anything good.

So I was self-conscious, fearful of men, afraid of failure, paralyzed by insecurity, and I had Jesus as my justification for all of those…SINS.

And it made me sit back and think, “If only they knew what I know. Then they’d see that everything they care about is worthless.”

Some good that does!

 

But once you and I start living according to the life transforming power of the Gospel, the Gospel of the Kingdom, we can stop just playing Christian church-goer waiting for heaven to come. We can go out and get our hands dirty bringing the presence of Jesus to the world.

 

Like the time I was at my gym, in my clearly skinny body (anyone who sees me can tell pretty readily that my body is battling disease), and two other ripped guys walked in talking. One of them talking about how badly his shoulder was injured.

Old Matt would have cowered in self-consciousness over my clearly less-than-ripped physique. But new Matt felt the fear and didn’t listen to it, instead I started a conversation, and prayed for his shoulder to be healed. Watched Jesus take all the pain away right there. Then the other guy started asking what I believe and opening up about his own life!

 

See…when you embrace the teaching in The DNA of a Man, you realize that you are a blessing in EVERY situation.

Here's What to Do Next

If this sounds awesome to you, and you’re ready to move the needle toward your Masculine, God-given DNA, then go ahead and

Click the big blue button to grab your copy of The DNA of a Man.

The “cost” of this book is $6.90, that’s it. I’m nearly giving it away.

 

You’ll be receiving the PDF version and the Kindle version…INSTANTLY–no waiting for the mail man.

INCLUDED BONUS: “How to Truly Love…In Strength” audio and video teaching.

And in case you were wondering,

I 100% Guarantee you’ll love this book, or…

I’ll return your $6.90 and let you keep the book anyway.

You don’t even have to send anything back.

Just email support and I’ll give you back your $6.90 with no questions asked.

No catch, just an invitation to grow together

I know that this is very inexpensive, and I can’t very well feed my family of five by giving away books for just $6.90, so you’re probably wondering what’s in it for me. 

I’m giving you this book as a way of giving you the best of what I’ve got. Making a great first impression. And judging by the feedback I’ve gotten, including the growing list of Amazon reviews, which I’ve screenshotted below, it should be a pretty LIFE-CHANGING first impression.

My hope is that you’ll love the book and that this will be the start of a good business relationship for years to come.

My hope is that you’ll continue to follow me and engage in the ministry resources I produce…all with the goal of bringing you further life and power and fire in God’s Kingdom.

I’m confident that you’ll be so blessed by what I’m giving you today, that you’ll get in touch and want to jump into my ministry groups, the Take Back Your Marriage Summit, and maybe even the Ranks of Adullam.

Pretty straightforward.

That said, keep in mind…

This is a LIMITED offer

I’m not going to make up a bunch of fake reasons as to why this is going to expire soon. I’m not putting a countdown timer on this page, because I can’t come up with a good HONEST reason why at the moment.

But I do know that I won’t be running the ads that brought you here forever. And I am going to be offering you a discounted deal on my Man Warrior King trainings, only available after you purchase the book. Furthermore, you’ll have the opportunity to get discounted access to the life-changing Ranks of Adullam.

So grab the book now a) before I take the ads down and b) in case you want the option of massively upleveling your life. 

Even more reviews from other Kingdom men like you.

Here's What to Do Next

If this sounds awesome to you, and you’re ready to move the needle toward your Masculine, God-given DNA, then go ahead and

Click the big blue button to grab your copy of The DNA of a Man.

The “cost” of this book is $6.90, that’s it. I’m nearly giving it away.

 

You’ll be receiving the PDF version and the Kindle version…INSTANTLY–no waiting for the mail man.

INCLUDED BONUS: “How to Truly Love…In Strength” audio and video teaching.

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